Happiness is a state of mind.If we want to be happy no one can stop us from being happy .Hope you agree with me.

It doesn’t matter how long we may have been stuck in a sense of our limitations. If we go into a darkened room and turn on the light, it doesn’t matter if the room has been dark for a day, a week, or ten thousand years — we turn on the light and it is illuminated. Once we control our capacity for love and happiness, the light has been turned on.- Sharon Salzberg

So How to be happy in life then ?

Simple I say !! You  can answer by yourself.   Do you know during what  times you will be more happy ?

The answer might be quite simple , yes  when we are with our friends and family members. So if you want bring most of your life , stay connected with your friends and families. How busy you are take time to call them , meet them and if possible go for outings and parties. I spend most of my free time with my family and in that way I am more happy than ever.

Be happy with what you have.  We have an objective to earn more, have a better life, better life style and all. Why not , go and try for it. But it does not mean you have run for it always and stop being happy with what you have. Look out for what you got or achieved now and feel good about it.Have a bliss in your life to full extent. Contentment is best way to be happy.

Invest your time in today  rather than looking be to happy  tomorrow.There may be a literal truth underlying the common-sense intuition that happiness  and sadness are contagious. Share your happiness with others  and live for today not tomorrow.

Be like a kid and play like a kid . If you have time  play with children.  If you can involve yourself in some outdoor games , you feel less stressed  and more relaxed. Try it. Take time to go for walk at least and again you can do that with your friends and family members. Stay connected with nature. Play in sand and water. If will relax your mind and refresh your energy.

Do what you love : One of the key factor to be happy in life is do what you love and feel interested.  If you do what you love , you will always feel happy in doing so. So get involved in the things you love.

Invest time for your hobbies :  Most of us some unique hobbies , like painting,singing,gardening .But we tend to keep our hobbies aside and give priority to only work.  It is OK if you work , that’s important any how, but try allocating some time to your hobbies. Who knows your hobbies can take you to long way and it may become another source of income.

Enjoy and celebrate your success: Don’t just celebrate only when you do something big or great. Celebrate and enjoy even a small success or achievements.Keep your self a happy person even in small things.

Read good motivational books ,stories , novels, listen to good music, do painting , join some yoga classes or dance classes. You can even do cooking and if you don’t know how to cook , learn some simple dishes and share your dishes wishes your family.

There are many ways by which you can be happy in your life always , it is you who have to decide whether to stay happy or not.

Funny Guys,Girls Images : So let me share my views on how to be funny and impress girls in the best ways you can.

Funny people with great sense of humor can become friend of all in no time. They find very easy to bridge the gaps and can break the ice very easily during tough times. Funny people have great potential to be happy and positive all the time. They show high level of confidence as well.

Well, aspects of being “funny” apply for both genders. I am a guy, and I like to make girls laugh, but it’s so easy, and for guys it’s even easier!  One thing, don’t go looking through that joke book, I mean, it’s not as funny. Improve the funniest way to Joke. here’s what I do, I basically engage in a normal conversation, and when/if a funny situation in the conversation comes up, maybe build on it and make a joke about it or make a different scenario that seems pretty funny. Am I coming through to you? Even the smallest of jokes are good. And if you strike out and don’t get a laugh, I am sure you’ll get s one some time. I would keep going,.

And you have to have a funny personality, have a random mind that says weird things that make people laugh, Stay up on current affairs, learn some jokes, be careful of sexist or racial stuff. Don’t try to hard, just be yourself. Approach people in a friendly way and listen to them first, pick up the conversation from there.

Being funny you will attract people to you. If you are not, you need to practice people skills and projecting confidence in yourself. Women love two things. Confidence and humor. If you can project those two aspects no matter the age, looks, or beliefs “they will come”. Women don’t care what you look like. They only care about your confidence level. They want to know subconsciously that you can take care of them and showing that you are sure of yourself works wonders. Don’t be afraid to treat a beautiful woman like your friend.

The kiss of death is telling pretty women that she is pretty and that you will do anything for them. In their eyes they think “wimp”. They want a challenge. Not someone who will agree with everything that they say. I probably gave you a little too much information but I find women very interesting. They really do think very differently.

The best ways to be funny is by not thinking about it so much and know when to stop. Girls like it when guys throw out witty lines that make them laugh but if a guy is obviously trying to be funny and doesn’t know when to take it down a notch or two it can really kill a moment. You have to mix rocky and charming together.

Be a lair sometimes. Telling lies can create good humor .If someone asks you why are you so late you can say you happen to meet Obama on the way. So take advantage of telling lies while being funny.

Experiment new ways to be funny. Take examples of real life situations and imitate and see you can be funny in that. Be an actor and use your body more in your communication. Use different accents and try it out.

Come up with smart sarcastic smirk that leaves girls laughing and thinking. Watch funny shows and spin off their lines. I meet a guy with that quick thinking sense of humor, I’m immediately drawn to him. Keeping a toad in your shirt pocket works for a lot of people. Watch some funny people around you, observe the mannerisms and their body languages. You will surely get something out of it.

Don’t sweat it, and keep the laughs going. . I hope I helped in some way. Have a wonderful and productive day.

How to be successful in life work business sales:  Success inherits different meanings. You are best judge to define what success means to you. Until you and only you answer that question, you can’t begin your real quest for success. Most of us are not honest with ourselves about what we really want. We don’t know ourselves well enough to figure it out what we want and  what we should not want

Some of my real life tips on how to be successful in life work and business sales – Secrets of Success and Critical Factors to become more successful.

Define Success : Once you figure out your personal meaning of success and have a clear understanding of what is important to you, you will see that your dreams are within arm’s length. You can achieve anything and everything once you are sure of what you want to do and the most vital part of being sure is to have confidence in yourself and what you plan to do.”Without goals and plans to reach them, you are like a ship that has set sail with no destination.  – F. Dodson“

Believe in Yourself: The meaning of success lies in the courage of overcoming your fears and failure and continue doing your work without being disheartened. Always remember, if you have the faith in yourself and if you keep working towards your goals without letting failures affect your self esteem, one day you’ll reach the stars. And even if you don’t, at least you’ll have the satisfaction that you were honest with your efforts.

Love Yourself: Success is only possible once you start loving yourself and your work. Loving yourself is important because if you don’t love yourself, you’ll never have the confidence to grow. Loving your work is important because Success is driven by passion. Unless and until you are very passionate about something and crave for it, you will not be able to put your 100% in accomplishing it.

Be Committed: “Success is a journey, not a destination”. It’s not just the accomplishment of a single goal. It is a continuous process of accomplishments that collectively amount to a major achievement in life. So, go ahead, explore the meaning of success, work sincerely for it and achieve what you always wanted to and you’ll soon find your name up there in the list of successful people!

Be Disciplined: Once you know what exactly you want you can devise a plan to get what you want. Once you devise a plan, you must be determined and discipline yourself to follow your plan. It all sounds easy but it is not as easy as it sounds. There are web sites and books on goal setting and achievement. Seek those out.

More popular books on the subject of Success:

The power of positive thinking - Norman Vincent Peal

Unlimited power  -Anthony Robbins

Super Self - Charles Givens

The essence of success - Earl Nightingale

Born Rich - Bob Proctor

The ultimate secret to getting absolutely everything you want - Mike Hernacki

Thick face – black heart Chin-ning Chu

You can have it all - Mary Kay

Your Attitude: Have a burning desire to achieve what you want. Just setting some goals and trying to reach them is not sufficient. You have to have a die hard desire  and you should be even ready to break mountains coming in your way. Are you ready for that ?

Start Simple and Slow : “1000 miles journey begins with single step “. So start small. Never make or plan for huge accomplishments. Try to modularize your goals and see if you can simplify them furthers. See your success in simple once growing big. Don’t just jump to fulfill want you want. Be patient and calm to harvest the best out of your success.

Celebrate Small : Celebrate even a small achievement , it will boost your confidence and moral. Don’t just wait to celebrate something big. Even a small party can give you high level satisfaction and fulfillment.”Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans”

Learn from your Mistakes: Most of us never realize what mistakes are meant for. Mistakes and failures give you scope to learn and master your abilities and skills. You can refer to books about the most successful people. You will clearly notice they failed many a times in their lives and learnt every bit from their failures.”Constant effort and frequent mistakes are the stepping stones  to genius.  – Elbert Hubbard ”

Fear Not : Stop running from failures. Be them as part of your plan and be prepared for anything. You have to keep trying and never let fear bring down your motivation.  Failures are common and no one will cherish in their with out having failure. Do remember that.”Fear is an illusion.  If you use that energy for self confidence -  you will be amazed at the results”

There are many ways and steps you can follow to achieve success. The list may not be complete but the above few are one which I feel some important points to consider being successful in want you want. All the best!!

This is continuation of my previous post. Now that you know WHAT IS A BLOG ? Let’s start and understand some basics on HOW TO BLOG ?

To begin with , blogging is very easy and anyone can do blogging  and don’t require much technical know-how. You can do blogging in most of the common languages available in the world , so you don’t have to be good at English as well. However preference can be given to English as it is the most familiar language to all. When I came to know about blogging  I did few mistakes and I did not want others to repeat those mistakes. Check my post about the COMMON BLOGGING MISTAKES.

HOW DO I BLOG ? Steps blog in WordPress Blogspot and Make Money. 

Please follow the below five  steps and you can be a successful blogger in no time.

Identify the key objective for creating a blog

Most of us start blogging just because there are many free blogging sites available. Since it is very easy to register for these free sites, we create an account ,give some names and just leave the blog blank. I suggest it is better to identify why you want to have a blog .Do you want to keep it private or make it public. You should ask some questions when you think of a blog. Why I should have a blog ? What is the objective of creating a blog ? am I ready to invest time for blogging ? How much I can spend to have a blog ? I am not saying like you should always begin a blog with an objective but its always better you have something in your mind when you start a blog.

Find out the most popular free blogging sites available over Internet.

There are many free blogging sites like “WordPress”, “Blogger”, “Typepad” ,”LiveJournal” . “Google Sites” and more . These sites are  easy to customize  and have pre-defined design templates and you can  select any one and customize as per your wish. Just visit these sites and register yourself.I suggest to have wordpress to begin with as there are many features and advantages with wordpress.However many beginners  start with google sites or blogger or typePad. Though I feel wordpress is  good one , some beginners feel wordpress a bit difficult use . Blogger is very simple one. TypePad has extensive design templates. Finally its your preference for choosing the blogging site.

Explore more about most popular blogging site.

If you want to be successful with your blogging , I suggest better do some ground work before jumping and creating a blog. There are many popular blogs  which are great examples of success. Refer those blogs and see what content went it them and how they made their blogs so effective and creative. You can refer this link to about 15 most popular blogs 

Identify a decent content for you to blog.

Finally what matters for all is the content. If you want your blog to be public then you have to keep good content into it.  You can share with your friends and relatives and publicize your blog and even you can earn some handsome money out of your blog if you have a powerful content.

Customize your blog design and configure set up. 

Once your registration is successful , you can go to your admin panel and select design templates, install few pluggins, store images, videos and configure your layout and all. It is always important to have a good design which suits to your content in the body. If your  blog has a business objective, have a design which suits to that. If you are writing some general articles , you can choose some basic templates.There are excellent design templates available in the above blogging sites , you can choose any one and can configure and customize as per your requirements. Options are very easy to use and just a click away.

Final words:-

Any blog can be successful only when a blogger is keen to update it regularly. Most of us do blogging for some time and just give up. I suggest , atleast we should spend one hour of a day and update something regularly in our blogs.

Many of us for sure maintain a personal dairy and sometimes we keep it very personal and some times we might feel like sharing our personal views and thoughts.

There are at time we cry to whole world what we are looking in our lives. All that you can do with your Blog.

A Blog is like a web based personal dairy of yours. When  you feel like writing or sharing something , you can open your personal web page and start writing. The activity of updating a blog is “blogging” and someone who keeps a blog is a “blogger”. A blog can be mirror of your life or your personal thoughts or it can be your virtual world , where you can write anything and keep updating it on regular basis.You may or may not share it , its up to you.“The term blog is a shortened form of weblog or web log. Authoring a blog, maintaining a blog or adding an article to an existing blog is called “blogging”.

You can take your blog to any extent. You can put some useful information and share with your friends, you can write stories, you can share photos, music , useful links ,you can update poetry I remember one of my friend used to share her favourite cooking menus on her blog. Most of us these days are using blogs for making money as well. These days blogs are used even for business purpose as well. Some blogs are used as forums. So there is no limit here.

A blog is a personal diary. A daily pulpit. A collaborative space. A political soapbox. A breaking-news outlet. A collection of links. Your own private thoughts. Memos to the world.Your blog is whatever you want it to be. There are millions of them, in all shapes and sizes, and there are no real rules. In simple terms, a blog is a website, where you write stuff on an ongoing basis. New stuff shows up at the top, so your visitors can read what’s new. Then they comment on it or link to it or email you. Or not – Source

I hope you have got the answer.  You can refer my post why I started blogging  to know why do I blog.

To Get over your boyfriend cheating on you , what I can say is, he is not the only man that exists, ever has existed, or ever will exist. Even though they’re not in a huge abundance, there are good men out there, who can treat you the way you deserve to be treated. If he is obsessive and possessive, then he doesn’t love you. If you had to get a restraining order out on him, then that should tell you something. If you are with him again, he is not going to change, and somebody could end up hurt or dead, and that most likely would be you.

You don’t need to go through all of that for a man. If he loved you, he wouldn’t not trouble you much. Why waste your time, your effort, your tears, or love on this man? It’s not worth it, but if you do allow him to treat you this way and you don’t like it, you can’t expect people to take you seriously or feel bad for you, because you need to know your worth.

Think about it this way, if you can’t love yourself or respect yourself, how can you expect anybody else to? You have to learn to be good to yourself, and to know that you deserve better. Do not accept anything less than the best. Don’t accept anything less than your worth, or it’ll be your own fault. Nobody can stop you more than yourself sometimes. Don’t be your own worse enemy.

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Stay away from him. It’s good that you broke up. If he ever tries to harm you, you make sure you have as much support as possible. Tell your family.

Just be patient, and you will meet a good man one day. Don’t let love be a pitfall for you. Unconditional love is nice, but sometimes your love has to be conditional if you want to live, and be happy. Just focus on yourself and make steps toward achieving goals and making a better future for yourself. You and your future are all that really matter at the end of the day.

When you love someone, you have to let them go sometimes,if they come back, they’re meant to be yours if not, someone else will.Instead of thinking that you’re losing the best thing that ever happened to you, you’re just getting rid of more troubles ahead! Hang out with friends and family. Go out more. Have a girls night out. Movie night.

Try keeping yourself busy. Go out with friends to theme parks the beach and the park and enjoy yourself. But try not to do things that would bring back memories. If you have pictures of him around your house put them in a box for a while. Enjoy the freedom. Love is hard and he Will never go completely but you Will do fine.

To get over him get a hobby, go out with your friends study more anything to get your mind off of him and eventually time will help you forget him.However I’m telling you know almost everyone remembers there first “boyfriend” simply because he was the first. In the end you will remember the good time with him and you won’t feel bad until then get your mind off of him and get a hobby.

Time is the only answer. Go  on for a small vacation where you didn’t get phone or Internet so you couldn’t talk to him at all. You can try replacing him but it’ll only make you miss him more. Don’t continue contact with him until you know you can keep your feelings at bay. It’s easier said than done but its the only way.

A relationship won’t last unless their is a strong and lasting friendship. A relationship can’t last without it. Without friendship as a base, respect, love, trust, and a rewarding sexual relationship are impossible. When the relationship is built on friendship, it can last long enough to grow into love. And it’s friendship that lasts.

Every relationship has its ups and downs. In other words, no relationship is perfect. You can’t blame yourself every time you get in a fight. Just step away from all the things that make you all fight. A miss communication can lead to fall outs. Try to look on the positive side of things.

Set yourself up for activities as time becomes available for them. It is not necessary to spend money all the time. Remember the best time is the time the two of you exchange special feelings. You need to inspire him/her to look forward to time with you as well as those times he can hang out with friends. The first priority for both of you should be each other. Others are secondary. Whatever help you build your relationship in the beginning should be planned to keep things going well.

Great communication – must be able to be comfortable telling each other likes and dislikes, angers, frustrations, questions.Communication and trust is a big part in any relationship. Try not to think about the past, just look forward to the future. If you stay in the past and worry things will be the same they will be. All relationships have ups and downs, but if you work on it you will make. Keep the fire in the relationship by trying to go out once a month and be by yourselves. If you truly love one another it will work out.

Support – self-explanatory; must be there for each other no matter how daunting the struggles.
Trust – that both people will be able to do what they promised to do, and won’t do what they shouldn’t…which leades me to…
Forgiveness – we’re all still human. If two people really love each other, they’ll have to understand each others’ flaws and work through them, not just boil in anger, keep things inside, or threaten to break up at every sign of mistreatment.
Humility – Be able to admit when you have a flaw. Being able to do things tat you might think is stupid, but that means a lot to your other.

Find a common interest and start doing it together! If you nag he’s just going to want to go with his friends more. No body likes to have someone being needy and nagging, it pushes them away. You both are tired after work? Get some exercise, golf together, plan tennis together, take a salsa class together, anything to get your blood moving and doing it as a couple. Exercise will energize you and whatever you choose will be fun because you are together. Maybe make a time to walk the dogs once a week, you can catch up. You’ll be outside in the fresh air moving, energizing.

In a nutshell, slowly and one step at a time. Just work on fixing ONE thing at a time. For instance, you want to be more social. So this week, try talking to one person that you normally wouldn’t everyday. Maybe someone at school, work, or maybe a total stranger at McDonald’s. You don’t have to win a Nobel Prize for being eloquent and worldly. Just talk about something simple and easy to bring up.And be sure to smile and show that you have interest when the person responds to you.

BOOM– To change your life, you’re one step closer to being a social butterfly. Also, don’t walk with your head down or show others that you’re not confident. It makes you feel MORE like that then. Have you ever heard the phrase “fake it ’til you make it?” It means you can act the part even if you don’t feel you really fit it yet. But guess what? When you start acting like that, it will actually become part of you over time.

Also, make sure you clothes and hair and stuff looks nice. Not saying you have to shop at Gucci but just show outwardly that you have self-respect.

If you are in some trouble or in some problems, be patient, and think that everything that is happening to you right now are just small and big rocks in your path and you have to be very strong and find what you really want before this Life Ends(Because “This Is Just 1 Trip”) and we don’t have no more chances to live again, So Please wait with patience because everything is in constant movement all the time and is impossible for you to stay forever in the situation that you may be  right now.

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